Single?

Now there are a lot of benefits to being single and i'm learning that now. I've been single for 4 days now which for me.... well that's the longest I've ever been single since I started dating and I must admit it is kinda fun! One of the best things about being single, you don't have to worry about anyone's feelings but your own. There's this level of freedom and total oneness, plus you can flirt as much as you want without anyone getting upset with you, well you can until the other person wants to take a little further and you shoot them down but that should be the least of your worries :). I must admit, I do kinda miss the whole bf/gf status but i'm just not ready to go there again, this is the year of me... as said by my best friend Chanice... She and I are kinda going through similar situations its fun knowing i'm not alone, she really understands me better than anyone really and I love that! My single life is actually not as bad as I thought  it would be, it's actually really really really fun, though I haven't started the whole flirting phase of it all yet so you can just imagine when that ball gets to rolling!! For all of you guys out there who are complaining about how you hate being single and how being single sucks... Y'all are living the single life really wrong!!! A relationship takes a lot of time and patience and understanding and I have none of those, well I do... just not a lot of it so in this year of getting to know myself i'm going to work on my people skills.. A guy can be my best friend for years on top of years but as soon as the whole gf/bf bomb gets dropped its like I instantly go in defense mode and that's when everything goes south and its with that that I know I need this time off, else am looking to spend forever alone with 27 stinking cats.... and I hate cats. Being by yourself is not a bad thing people, in fact it actually shows you how strong you are knowing you have no one but yourself to rely on... So be single and rock it out!! there's plenty of time for love and togetherness an marriage and when all of that happen you can just kiss "alone time" goodbye worst when the kids get involved... Still think being single is a bad thing?? #ThinkAboutIt